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The Assumption of Goodwill

When I first introduced the term Assumption of Goodwill long ago, I had a clear vision of what I meant—and what I didn’t mean—by using or teaching this skill. I needed to define a process that I could use to teach how to counteract negative bias.
August 7, 2025
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Desperation is NOT Attractive

In the beginning of a relationship, intensity and focus are easy because of physical attraction. But over time, one partner can become more invested in the relationship than the other. What should you NOT do?
August 7, 2025
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HMRF Grants: Be Ready and Get Involved!

Healthy Marriage and Responsible Fatherhood (HMRF) grants provide individuals, couples, and youth with vital education and tools designed to build readiness, resilience, and success. If you need guidance, please contact us.
July 23, 2025
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The Risks of Couples Living Together Before Marriage

Studies show those with cohabitation experience are 50-80% more likely to divorce than couples who have not lived together before marriage.
January 30, 2023
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RAGE: How to respond safely

Incidences of rage are becoming more common. Before responding to rage, consider: How vulnerable is your current position? And are you in danger?
August 7, 2025